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Magistrate publishes ‘joke’ about women’s smelly body parts but we’re not laughing

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President of the Toowoomba Rugby League, Greg McIntyre, thought the parents, grandparents, children and sundry friends of the town’s rugby players would enjoy his little ‘joke’ in the grand final newsletter handed out to them as they walked through the gate. The same man happened to be an acting Magistrate.

Yes, a public figure, paid from the public purse to make sound judgements, shared this sexist and demeaning joke without seemingly a second thought.

Lots of people didn’t find it funny. One of them was Nina Funnell who wrote on it for the National Times yesterday.

Nothing funny about lawyer jokes like this one

What passes for a family-friendly joke these days? According to Greg McIntyre, a magistrate from Toowoomba, it’s something from that age-old genre that makes fun of the smell of a woman’s bodily parts, and on this occasion, a young ‘‘rednecks’’ inability to distinguish between them…

Apparently, McIntyre found this joke so amusing that not only did he decide to repeat it but to publish it in a program that was distributed to children and their families at the Toowoomba rugby league grand final. The president of the Toowoomba Rugby League, who brags that he is ‘‘next in line to be the chief redneck’’ of Toowoomba, was surprised to learn that not everyone shared his sense of humour. Parents and members of the football community have complained that the joke is crude and sexist, and should not have been included in a publication read by children. Read full article here.

McIntyre’s current status with the club is unclear. Is he still the club’s  president? If so why? And has he retained his position as acting Magistrate? Shouldn’t the legal establishment be upholding the highest standards? If he is not disciplined that will be the real joke.

Footballers, dancing girls, pole dancers, simulated sex: all on the Footy Show

Did you happen to catch this on Channel 9’s Footy Show the night before the grand final?  I’m sure lots of aspiring young footballers did.

It was the ‘Player Revue’, featuring foot ballers from various teams, ‘performing’ for the popular Nine program (which has attracted criticism in the past for its attitude towards women, you may recall the matter of Sam Newman and the mannequin dressed as a female sports journalist ).

Most of the revue conveys a message that women are playthings for male entertainment and gratification. We see women scantily dressed and spread legged, footballers with their hands down their pants simulating masturbation or running their hands over women’s bodies. The St Kilda scene probably contains the most overt sexual content in the pole dancing scene, where the player rips of the woman’s jacket, and she performs for him.

It seemed to me as though the club was deliberately sending an ‘F-you’ to its critics. It also seemed to be saying we will continue to do whatever we want to women: we have an inviolable right and entitlement to women’s bodies and nothing will stop us. You would have thought they may have been a little more sensitive about portraying themselves this way, given recent events.

Was this the Club’s idea or did Channel 9 encourage it? Is there anyone left at the Club who still possesses brains?

MTR’s ‘rubbish’ interview on MTR

So I was asked my views on the ‘Gownlows’, where the partners, dates, one night stands, whatever, of AFL players are paraded like models and assessed for their dress and appearance (for appearance read cleavage). My comments were run a few places including here.

I was contacted by MTR Radio ( I knew I should have trademarked the initials) asking me to appear on the Andrew Bolt and Steve Price show. It turned out to be possibly the most condescending and dismissive interview I’ve ever done. You can listen to it here - it starts around 35:00 – though my friends say they found more pleasure in stabbing their eyes with forks. At the end of the interview, when I’m off air, Price scoffs at my views, describing them as “rubbish”.

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October 11th, 2011  
Tags: Andrew Bolt, Channel 9, Greg McIntyre, Mtr radio, national times, Nina Funnell, Sam Newman, sexism, sport, St Kilda football club, Steve Price, The Footy Show, Toowoomba Rugby League

One Response to “Magistrate publishes ‘joke’ about women’s smelly body parts but we’re not laughing”

  1. Jacqui Lamont
    October 11th, 2011 at 10:10 pm

    I gave up on Steve Price’s program after hearing his dismissive comments about the Live Export industry. He’s just after reactions. Let’s hope his daughters continue to be “immune” to the over-sexualised culture that pervades our society. I have two teenage daughters who, without any prompting from me, comment regularly on the images they see on billboards, in magazines etc. Steve Price has his head in the sand. Keep up the good work Melinda and keep shining the light on the issue.


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