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Sex sells, but we’re selling out our children

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Ever feel like you’re living in a giant porn theme park? Billboards dominate public space with hyper-sexualised messages. Buses are painted with semi-naked women. There are pole-dancing themes in shopfronts, porn mags next to the lollies at the petrol station counter, T-shirts in youth surf shops depicting S&M and Playboy bunnies on everything from girls’ jewellery to doona covers.

Children are absorbing distorted messages about their bodies, sexuality and gender roles because the Advertising Standards Board does not consider objectification of women contrary to prohibitions on discrimination and vilification.

It’s been called the ”adultification” of children, where sexualising messages combine with the commercialisation of childhood to constrict the childhood years.

Now doctors are calling it a public health issue. Their umbrella organisation, the Australian Medical Association, called last week for an inquiry into the premature sexualisation of children in marketing and advertising. Self-regulation by the industry was clearly not working, its president, Steve Hambleton, said, pointing to images and messages that were ”disturbing and sexually exploitative”.

”These are highly sexualised ads that target children, and the advertising industry is getting away with it,” Dr Hambleton said.

”There is strong evidence that premature sexualisation is likely to be detrimental to child health and development, particularly in the areas of body image and sexual health.”

Perhaps his intervention will get the attention of our otherwise negligent leaders. Psychological bodies and adolescent health experts have documented these negative physical and mental health outcomes for years, including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, eating disorders, body image dissatisfaction and poor academic performance. Girls especially are affected.

As psychologist Steve Biddulph, who is writing a book on girls, says: ”There is an erosion of self-image by the corporate media sector … the creation of anxiety about physical appearance and sexuality in pre-teen and mid-teen girls.”

The Senate standing committee on environment, communications and the arts examined the issue in 2008, reporting that ”the onus is on broadcasters, publishers, advertisers, retailers and manufacturers to take account of these community concerns”.

It recommended a review 18 months later, to see how industry had responded. So what has happened since? Very little. The recommendations were essentially ignored and the review still hasn’t happened. Meanwhile, the situation has got worse.

Groups continue to campaign against corporations that exploit the bodies of women and girls for profit. But without government and regulatory bodies demanding real change, it’s an advertisers’ free-for-all. Self-regulation continues to mean the industry gets away with whatever it wants.

Inadequacies in the present system include a weak code of ethics, the voluntary nature of the code, a lack of pre-vetting, the Advertising Standards Board’s lack of power to order removal of advertisements and meaningful penalties, and no consultation with child development experts. Even when campaigners get a win, it is meaningless. By the time the ruling is announced, the particular ad campaign is already over.

Last year the House standing committee on social policy and legal affairs put advertisers and marketers on notice, asking them to report back on what they were doing by December this year. In Britain and France, these industries are also under considerable pressure to change their ways following parliamentary inquiries into the sexualisation of children.

We need a regulatory system independent of the vested interests of marketers, and which draws upon the expertise of child health professionals.

It is time for corporate social responsibility in this area. If industry continues to show almost no willingness to be proactive, then someone should step in and make it do the right thing. Corporate profits shouldn’t come before the welfare of children and young people.

As published in the Sydney Morning Herald, April 9,2012

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April 9th, 2012  
Tags: Advertising, advertising standards board, billboards, channel 7 sunrise, discrimination, equality, House Standing Committee on Social Policy and Legal Affairs, media, objectification of women, sexualisation of girls, status of women

2 Responses to “Sex sells, but we’re selling out our children”

  1. Amanda
    April 11th, 2012 at 6:35 am

    Another great article, but is anyone ever going to listen? I wrote to the Minister for Women around a year ago who completely agreed with everything I said, said they were working on doing something about it, but guess it must take time. It runs all the way down to advertisers conditioning children on their roles in life (simple things like the Mums knowing best for their children slogan that is used in so many adverts and clearly pushing the agenda that parenting is womens work and men just don’t exist, insulting as much to the great men who raise children full time) through to yes, how many childrens products have the Playboy logo on them? Little girls walking around with the handbags, or with the bed covers. You see late teen girls out competing for attention to see who gets the most sexual stares from men, competing with other girls for who is the most sexually desired. Young teens taking Duromine to get thin, the amount on the Gold Coast is shocking. Girls more interested in being hot than happy, silly vacant expressions taken from over sexualised models. It’s getting scary out there for any woman and for any parent of a young girl growing up in raunch culture and one that seems to be hammering a real derogatory gender role on women.


  2. pixie
    May 6th, 2012 at 12:10 am

    I agree with most of this. I believe last year we had a law brought in to prevent shops selling adult style underwear for children to combat the sheer amount of inappropriate stuff going on. It really is getting out of hand


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