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Why can my kid reach the porn but not the choccies? – An open letter to the Chairman of 7Eleven

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This is an open letter to the Chairman of 7Eleven Australia, Russell Withers. It has also been posted on their Facebook page…

***READ 7ELEVEN’S RESPONSE HERE***

Dear Mr Withers,

A couple of weeks ago I wandered into one of your 7Eleven stores in the Sydney CBD. I was surprised to see Penthouse magazine and other such titles on the bottom shelf of your magazine rack.

Did I miss something? When did these previously ‘top shelf’ magazines make the migration south?

I mentioned to the cashier that someone had made a mistake whilst arranging the magazine rack and how it would be more appropriate for these magazines to be on the higher shelves (at the very least) – he shrugged his shoulders and offered me the latest 2-for-$5 offer.

I didn’t think much more of this until this week, when I took advantage of some generously priced fuel at one of your 7Eleven branded petrol stations. As I walked into pay, again I was struck by the array of porn magazines on the bottom shelf of the magazine rack.

This has to be some kind of coincidence? Two 7Eleven branded stores, both displaying porn magazines at the eye level of the average two year old toddler.

Today I made a point of going into another 7Eleven store. Again the same arrangement.

Can you please explain to me sir, why it is that my 4 year old son can’t reach the chocolate bars, but he can grab a couple of copies of Penthouse?

What’s doing? How could it be that three out of three stores have these magazines in such an obviously inapproriate spot?

I can only assume that this arrangement is part of the Franchise System. As your website says:

To help maximise sales and profit, our team of Category Managers…provide recommended layouts tailored to your customer and store.

If this is the case, as a father of a 4 year old boy and an 18 month old girl can I ask you to – PLEASE. STOP.

It’s bad enough that as parents we need to negotiate the internet that ensures that most kids have been exposed to hard core porn well before their teen years. Or deal with TV broadcasters who advertise shows like Underbelly and Brothers in Arms (soft porn shows masquerading as ‘dramas’) in the breaks of family friendly shows such as The Voice or Masterchef.

And of course we’re used to hearing primary-school-aged kids singing along to songs with overtly sexual themes courtesy of money hungry record execs. And don’t get me started on the accompanying music clips!

I know I can’t lay all this at your door, but c’mon. Do your bit. Think of it as ticking your corporate responsibility box.

Should I really need to worry about what my kids are picking up while I’m nipping in to a 7Eleven to grab a sandwich?

To put this into context even your Krispy Kreme donuts are kept in a glass case out of their reach!

I thought about whether or not to cite the research that shows the impact exposure to porn has on kids – but surely I don’t need to do that do I? Surely common sense is enough? If you do require evidence, this site provides a good starting point as does the work by Melinda Tankard Reist.

I know you’re busy, so I’ve taken the liberty of writing a new ‘layout recommendation’ that you can just cut & paste into your franchisee mailouts.

Dear Franchise Holder, Please put the porn away, or at the very least place it on the top shelf of your magazine rack. Kind Regards

I look forward to receiving, and publishing your response.

Kind regards,

Dan Haesler

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August 2nd, 2012  

3 Responses to “Why can my kid reach the porn but not the choccies? – An open letter to the Chairman of 7Eleven”

  1. James
    August 2nd, 2012 at 8:38 pm

    I’m horrified at the thought that porn is so available to be picked up by children. This is completely unacceptable behaviour by irresponsible people who only see the bottom line and not the moral implications of their actions.


  2. Dan F
    August 3rd, 2012 at 10:18 am

    Dan H ,
    Brilliant contribution on this issue.
    I feel the same. The availability to teenagers who are queuing for their slurpies is very disappointing .
    And it’s not the store holders fault.
    It lies with the predetermined layout.
    This is an important campaign .
    Dan F.


  3. julie
    August 17th, 2012 at 8:04 pm

    Congratulations on taking up this issue. I had a similar issue at my local petrol station which was displaying a magazine called “Barely 18″ at eye level directly next to the checkout ! It’s this whole normalisation of pornography and not giving a damn about the rights of the majority of people who do not want ( or are legally not allowed) to have to look at pornography. We need to be vocal about it and speak up whenever we see things like this happening. Well done.


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