writer – speaker – advocate

  • Home
  • About Melinda
  • Shop
  • Testimonials
  • Bookings
  • Contact

Melinda Tankard Reist


Girls still getting the wrong messages about their bodies: MTR in Sunday Herald Sun

MTR in the Media Add comments

It’s time for a Love Your Mind campaign

I ASKED a group of Year 12 female students what message they would like me to deliver on their behalf to an advertising conference I was about to address.

Their profound and carefully worded message?

You suck.

Not exactly poetic. But they were tired of the way advertisers covered the public domain with unrealistic, sexualised, hyper-thin images of women, eroding their self-confidence and self-esteem and making them feel inadequate.

Of course, it’s not just the ad industry. Girls receive distorted messages every day from popular culture, magazines, clothing and music video clips.

New research shows attempts to help girls feel better about themselves don’t work – because there’s no let-up in the barrage of messages telling them they’re not good enough.

Mission Australia’s 11th national Youth Survey – the biggest annual poll of 15,000 people aged 15-19 – found 43 per cent of young women were significantly concerned about body image, which was in their top three concerns.

Mission Australia’s national manager of research Dr Bronwen Dalton echoed what many of us have been saying: current interventions are a failure. “Well-meaning efforts to combat the problem by governments and others have failed to make an impact,” Dr Dalton says.

“Unrealistic and unachievable images of physical perfection seems to have entrenched high levels of concern among young women. Magazines are some of the worst culprits when it comes to feeding young women’s negative views of their bodies.”

There’s too much emphasis on positive self-talk without demanding any changes from those who promote, prey upon and profit from the body dissatisfaction of girls.

Telling girls to repeat over and over “I’m beautiful as I am” isn’t going to cut it.

We have a meaningless body image voluntary code of conduct, with no penalties.

A code with no teeth was always doomed to fail.

That only 15 companies entered the Federal Government’s inaugural body image awards showed what they thought of them.

The winner was Dolly – just after it revived its model competition upholding the body ideals of the global beauty industry.

A runner-up was the Dove Body Think Program. Dove is owned by Unilever, which also owns the Lynx brand, known for its degrading depictions of women. As for the other entrants, we don’t know who they are – I’ve been waiting five months for the list from the Department of Education, Employment and Workplace Relations.

The body image code was claimed to be a world-first attempt to regulate the industries contributing to increased rates of body shame and eating disorders.

Minister Kate Ellis wanted industry professionals to “move beyond the ‘business as usual’ approach and take real action to promote positive body image”.

The aim was to gather the beauty, fashion and advertising industries in a partnership to address the growing problem of body image dissatisfaction. But industry didn’t really care.

Even Mia Freedman, then head of the National Body Image Advisory Group, said the code she helped create has been given the “fashionable middle finger”.

Another problem is that even well-meaning programs still emphasise looks.

Butterfly Foundation’s Stop The Fat Talk campaign encourages girls to love their bodies. For example, they can say “I have a great butt” and “my hips are sexy”.

CAN’T we appreciate their marvellous design and function without falling in love with our bums?

The “love your body” emphasis could create more pressure, implying all women should feel beautiful all the time. I imagine there are a lot of women who don’t feel beautiful – but that’s OK, because beauty shouldn’t have to define self-worth.

Perhaps it’s time for a Love Your Mind campaign to help girls see they are more than their bodies.

One of the advisory group recommendations states: If, after a sustained period of continued developments, there is a broad failure of industry to adopt good body image practices, the Australian Government should look to review the voluntary nature of the code.

We haven’t yet had the “sustained period of continued developments”.

A voluntary approach hasn’t worked, and the Mission Australia results prove it.

As published in the Sunday Herald Sun Dec 9, 2012

Share

December 10th, 2012  
Tags: body image, Eating Disorders, love your mind, mental health, Mission Australia, objectification, self-esteem, Sexualisation, teenagers, thin ideal

3 Responses to “Girls still getting the wrong messages about their bodies: MTR in Sunday Herald Sun”

  1. Amy
    December 11th, 2012 at 4:18 am

    Brilliant, and exactly, and this this this. It’s about time someone called out this positive attitude/affirmation crap for what it is: completely useless. Plus, it puts the onus of responsibility on the individual, rather than the industries that do the demeaning, degrading, objectifying, etc. There’s not enough time in the day, every single day, for someone to affirm themselves out of the constant barrage of the sexualized and unrealistic images of women.

    I really wish corporations were held liable for the damage their products/advertising do to real live human beings.


  2. Audrey
    December 11th, 2012 at 9:38 am

    This constant hammering on your figure, weight, looks…etc. start already at primary school age. The image of skinny is healthy and chubby is unhealthy gets upheld in school. It is at primary school level that the message should change.


  3. Monica
    December 17th, 2012 at 11:37 am

    Unfortunately I have been tainted by the “what will others think of my body” syndrome meaning now that I’m over 30 I don’t want to even be seen in bathers; too bad about wanting to cool off in the water or have fun. However, it isn’t too late for the next generation of young people coming through. Yes forget about beautiful bodies what about our beautiful minds. Afterall our bodies are just a shell to house our beautiful minds in. I see the pressure girls are put under to be body beautiful and when I think about what I was told when I was young especially “fat thighs” it makes me cringe. And then I stopped eating and was very bony indeed because I heard these comments and then a new set of comments began, “don’t you think you should not go to the gym every day”, and “do you always have to leave food on your plate”, “you are too skinny”, “we need to fatten you up” {what for Christmas!} and my friends would follow me into the toilet thinking I was going to throw up the meal I just ate. I never did I just didn’t eat much in those days. Today I still feel very self-conscious about my body and I’m always on a diet these days; nothing has changed too late for me perhaps but not for the ones coming through.


    Testimonials

    • “Intelligent, passionate, brilliant, fearless… I could not recommend her more highly”

      Dr Michael Carr-Gregg
    • “You continue to reset my shock meter…”

      Steve Biddulph
    • “Melinda Tankard Reist’s presentation to Middle and Upper School students at Pymble Ladies’ College was absolutely brilliant!”

      Justine Hodgson – English Faculty, Pymble Ladies’ College
    • “Melinda Tankard Reist has had a transformational affect on our school.”

      Ms Stephanie McConnell, Principal – Turramurra High School

    Shop

    • In this DVD, Melinda takes us on a visual tour of popular culture. “Melinda’s presentation leaves audiences reeling. She delivers her message with a clarity and commonsense without peer.” – Steve Biddulph, author, Raising Boys, Raising Girls

    • Purchase Big Porn Inc, Getting Real, Faking It and the Ruby Who? book and DVD in one bundle for $100 and save 20% off the individual price.

    • Purchase Big Porn Inc, Getting Real and Faking It in one bundle for $70 and save 20% off the individual price.

    • Purchase Getting Real, Faking It and Ruby Who? DVD in one bundle for $60 and save 12% off the individual price.

    • Purchase the Ruby Who? DVD and book together for only $35 saving 10% off the individual price.

    • “This powerful and humane book is a breakthrough…Big Porn Inc shows us we are poisoning our own spirits.” – Steve Biddulph
      “A landmark publication” – Clive Hamilton

    • “Getting Real contains a treasure trove of information and should be mandatory reading for all workers with young people in health, education and welfare” – Dr Michael Carr-Gregg, Adolescent Psychologist

    • Do you read women’s lifestyle magazines? Have you thought about how magazines might affect you when you read them? Faking It reflects the body of academic research on magazines, mass media, and the sexual objectification of women.

    • Ruby Who? is the sweet and innocent story of a little girl’s adventure in re-discovering her identity. Ruby wishes for so many things and dreams of being like others. Will she end up forgetting how to just be herself?

    • Ruby Who? is the sweet and innocent story of a little girl’s adventure in re-discovering her identity. Ruby wishes for so many things and dreams of being like others. Will she end up forgetting how to just be herself?

    • Defiant Birth challenges widespread medical, and often social aversion to less than perfect pregnancies or genetically different babies. It also features women with disabilities who were discouraged from becoming pregnant at all.

    Upcoming Events

      19 Jun 13: Brindabella Christian College – parent event 7:00 pm, Lyneham ACT

      24 Jun 13: Hunter Valley Grammar – parent event 7:30 pm, Ashtonfield NSW

      24 Jun 13: Regional youth development officers network conference 9:00 pm, Pokolbin NSW

      26 Jun 13: Pembroke School – Parents event – Adelaide 7:00 pm, Kengsinton Park SA

      27 Jun 13: Sacred Heart College – Students – Adelaide 9:00 am,

      27 Jun 13: Mitcham Girls High School – Parents event 7:00 pm, Kingswood

      1 Jul 13: Sexualisation of children in the media – All Saints' College -WA 7:00 pm, Bull Creek WA

      4 Jul 13: 11th World Convention of the International Confederation of School Principals 11:00 am, Cairns QLD

    Recent posts

    • Real life stories that bring you to tears: Girlfriend June
    • Tax office admits it gave ‘unacceptable’ response to MTR complaint re sexist tweet
    • “You f—ing whore”: What happened when a young activist took on a US rapper
    • Collective Shout releases live footage of rap artist’s vicious tirade against young female activist
    • Abuse, rape threats, Tyler the Creator fans defend their idol
    • Tyler complaints “funny” says Palace Theatre

    Collective Shout: for a world free of sexploitation

    Archived Posts & Articles

    My Tweets

    Melinda TankardReist
    • RT @DrRobi_S: This is definitely worth attending: @MelTankardReist on the Sunshine Coast for 1 night only this… http://t.co/LLYhMT6xTi 04:21:05 AM June 11, 2013 from Twitter for iPhone ReplyRetweetFavorite
    • This is what women hating looks like. Young activist on receiving end of @fucktyler tirade http://t.co/3LkypfiYwY #vaw 09:55:48 PM June 10, 2013 from TweetDeck ReplyRetweetFavorite
    • How I exposed @fucktyler sexually degrading insults against me at Sydney gig: Tal Stone tells. MTR blog http://t.co/3LkypfiYwY #vaw 08:31:19 AM June 10, 2013 from TweetDeck ReplyRetweetFavorite
    @meltankardreist
Copyright © 2013 Melinda Tankard Reist MTR PTY PTD All Rights Reserved